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Ideas to help your team develop personally and professionally.

Imagine this: You're a team leader and frustrated because the office kitchen is a mess, and not for the first time.

Do you say, 'Too many people are leaving the kitchen in a mess. Please tidy up before you leave ' or 'Thanks to those who tidy up after using the kitchen'?

The results of many studies suggest that highlighting those who are doing the right thing is likely to be more effective.

Humans tend to follow the most popular action. In one study researchers put leaflets behind the windscreen wipers of cars in a parking building and measured how many leaflets were left as litter. When they 'seeded' the route to the lifts with leaflets, many more people dropped theirs on the floor.

Media campaigns that highlighted littering, or how people don't turn up for their hospital appointments, or fail to vote, have only made things worse.

Accentuate positive examples instead. 'Thanks to all those who've put their reports in on time.' 'Thanks to all those who have already completed the survey.'

About Ralph Brown

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Ralph is our founder. He has a background in psychology, television journalism and business.

Ralph's passions are positive psychology and writing. He leads workshops on both and speaks to conferences on the psychology of thriving at work.

In 2011  Professional Speakers Australia awarded him its top speaking accreditation, the CSP.

He has written six books, six e-books and more than a hundred articles on psychology and writing. International research journals have published his articles reviewing the research on resilience.

Ralph lives in rural Canterbury. He is a JP and marriage celebrant and enjoys travelling to French-speaking countries.

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